The End

27/12/12

I remember the joy i had when i was on my way to picked you up. The thrilled i experienced knowing that our journey together were going to began.
I was overjoyed that i couldnt bring myself together when trying to got my act to properly asked you to come with me, it was so surreal. I loved the feeling of closeness i shared with you, everything was just right, like we were supposed to meet, i felt like in my whole life before you was waiting for that moment. It was love, not at a first sight cuz i have loved you before i actually met you. It was a fine night, my joyous moment, of which i treasured.

We had going through a lot, our bond grew stronger, we were making promises and vows, you gave me purpose, i finally have someone i can call my own. You make feel what i never felt before. The feeling of knowing that i am loved,that someone out there can make me feel loved - it was victorious. For my concern, i had everything i needed and i knew that the only right thing to do was to dedicate my whole for the love i felt from you - everything was worthed. 

Thank you for your caring, understanding and for loving me despite all my flaws and insecurities,Thanks for being my best friend, for always being there for me and made me feel belonged. You were the only one that accept me for who i am without judging me. It was you that i had my best days with, you made it possible for me to be happy. 

Thank You -  I love you

27/12/17 

You are not mine anymore, like all the other relationship the boredom drove drove us to do what we werent meant to do to each other, we count the distances, we grew apart. Lying and betrayal were inevitable.
We were both at fault, i also had my part in that.

Im so sorry i wasnt enough for you, i am sorry that what we shared didnt manage to be the reason to earn your loyalty and honesty. I am so sorry i couldnt gave you the ideal perfection you had in your mind.
Most of all I'm sorry that you lost yourself being with me, i'm sorry that i drove you away from the real you. 

I'm sorry i didnt put enough effort !

I regret that i had to see you changed into someone you used to loathe, i am sorry that you had to hurt me in order to escape the uncertainty of being with me. I am sorry i couldnt offer you the happiness you deserved.

You have the right to be happy, to be fulfilled, to feel accomplished.
I wish that the pain you inflict on me worth the happiness that you seek. You deserve all the happiness life could offer.

I hope you find the one thing that will deserve not just your love but also your dedication, loyalty and honesty.

I hope you find your happiness.

I will miss you! #Goodbye #Lissabel 

Love and be Loved

A very poor man lived with his wife.

One day, his wife, who had very long hair asked him to buy her a particular comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed.

The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.

She did not insist on her request. The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife. He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.

He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.

Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their love.

MORAL :::-

To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and tobe loved by the one you love, that is EVERYTHING... 

Never take love for granted....!!!!

- Source - 

My List of Depapepe's

Heloo all, its been a while since my last post. i've been busy running my routines called life. in case if u asked me, i'd say life is great. specially these latest weeks.

well enough about me, i'm gonna share some group music called Depapepe, its a group music originating from Japan. these accoustic guitar duo is composed of Miura Takuya and Tokuoka Yoshimari, If u wanna know more about these two man u can go and search for them on google.

Well, since i've been mostly listened to their song lately and enjoyed their music i'd like to share some details of the Group and then mention my Top 5 of their song.

As for the name of the group, It comes from the combination of both short names of the band members, by combining the Japanese word for overbite, ‘deppa’, and the name of Takuoka’s previous band ‘DERUPEPE’. Contrary to a popular rumour circulating among their fans, the two guitarists are not brothers.  (wikipedia)

Their music is a calm to the soul, most of their music really are great. beside they are really skilfull.
you guys should check it out on youtube for their music and their albums.

As for me these 5 bellow is my favourite , i know its kinda subjective opinion but i pick it by taste so i hope there wont be a fans that will complained to the selection i've made. (ps.not in order - except for the 1st one.)

Well, Enjoy... and tell me what is your fav song of Depapepe. 

1. Start - This is the very first Depapepe's song that i listened., and yet still as for me - my  best one so far. (Recommended)



2. Summer Parade




3. One



4. Snow Dance



5. Horizon ( sorry i cant find the live play by depapepe, this one bellow is the copy of Horizon)




Till Then..

Love, It hits good !

My life has been great this lately, nothing much that happened to made me happy but i thank God for those few great things that happened in my life, and for the very special person that have been with me.

I love the new daily activity that keep me busy, tidy and well organized. I love me.
I spent my days mostly at my room, all alone.. guess whats there that makes me Happy ??
Love. ! oh yes., I'm falling in love ! with a very special and beautiful girl ever.
She knows exactly how to fill the unfulfilled things in me, and I have the passion to do the same. we both worship our time together, Its Happiness. !

Its sad that i dont have much more idea to write down here, i'm in the middle of doing something and its kinda complicate for thinking about a lot of things at the same time., I think of do the writting and here i am now but i cant really do it cuz i'm thinking too much.  its should be good and give me more idea and more words but truth is its not, I'm now thinking about a lot of things.. and its complicated !

No, i dont think of lots things - i'm thinking about her only,. over and over again., A lot.!
guess how happy i am, ? :) :)!

None can't escape love,.right people ?

#Till then

Love is Love

When I love someone, I certainly want that someone to be mine.
I want to spend all of my time with her
I want to love her right and make her realize how dear she is to me.
For me, the feeling is important.
I know some people definitely have the same thought.
LOVE is what matters the most.
That’s how love works: from the heart and transform itself into deed.

However, look at our surroundings! Can you find anything as pure and beautiful love?
Beat me, you can never find anything like that. Even if you find it, the ratio is 1:100.
Nowadays, all that matter is SEX.
I don’t despise sex and people who agree to this statement.
I’m no clean too. I sometimes do the dirty talks and also have dirty thoughts.
I just don’t understand how people have misunderstood things.

The “be mine” is NOT about you surrender yourself in the act as in sex.
Love and sex are two very different things.
Once, sex was an act of love. Sex is to be sacred but not anymore.
Sex is a lust.
A lust is the act of wanting someone physically. Only the body that is important.
No more, no less.
Hence, love is no sex and vice versa.


I don’t say that sex is wrong. It’s right when the timing is right.
It means you can manifest your love by surrendering yourself in the sexual act with the right person.
Sex is only right when you do it out of LOVE and NOT out of LUST.
And one thing, you can never use this as an excuse saying:
“Of course we did it because we loved each other. Who are you to say that what we did was out of lust and not love?”
Yeaaaah…., OK!! I’m no one. And that’s because you “loved” each other.

If you truly did it out of love then you’ll never say what supposed to be “love” become “loved”. Because when a person truly loves you, sex will never be the point which will make him or her stays by your side. It’s because of who you are.
It’s because of how precious and how such a darling you are to him or her.
Because if sex is the reason why he or she stays now, then they won’t stay as long as you need them to.
Like the feeling after the orgasm that will never last longer, that’s how the little thing you called or misunderstood as love will fade away.
They will fade like the bubbles in the air before you know it.
So, do it with the right person. Do it when the time is right.
And do it out of love.


ps : you will always know when u r in love, just dont complicate ur mind. stand and fight, do your very best. for in the end you'll realize the true love of ur life is what u have always needed.

Till then

Me + You

When I say I love you. You say you don't deserve it. 

When I say I need you . You say I deserve someone better. 

When I say my life is better with you. You say I don't know any better. 

But when I kiss you, you say I love you, When I have to go, you say I need you. 

When I am with you, you know, that there is no better feeling then our love coming together and that is something we both deserve.

Take me as I am, not who I was.. 

Please don't judge me, and I won't judge you,!
and If you love me, Let it be beautiful.

When i miss you

Ketika saya kangen, Saya tau kmu juga lagi kangen. Super Huh ? hehe 

Hei u down there, I just wondered how u are and if u miss me at all, cuz i miss you. A lot !! i wish i can rip u out of my dream and hug you. 

Wishing u weren't so far away..

Many people says that when we missed some one it means she/he is missed u too, i do believe it. i'm a person that really give a damn about harmony and stability. for that it means i only missed someone for they are also missed me too. lol - there is always a feedback of what am doing. Not really everytime, pretty big time though. hehe

I dont say i've always that way, i'm just trying to accustom my self to make sure the continuity of my -relationships. Well, some weren't agree but there are many who agree. and I only care about that.. (-_-)

There is a reason why two people stay together, They give each other something no body else can. 

Skype with her and yet still miss her so much..

Hadomi hau nia doben... :* :*

To you out there....

 @My room... ^^Wondering things about you.^^

They said things happen when we least expect it.^^
I have never thought that waiting for your message will be what I’m doing tonight.

Talking to you is an addiction. Seeing you make me nervous (==)

I have never thought that you would impact me and my life.
I want to know you better. I want to understand you :)

Is this Love ??

 

Gives and Forgives, in loving Memory...Andre Simoes

 " Kita harus bisa saling memaafkan, karena semua orang pernah dan akan berbuat salah." 
- Avo Andre Simoes

Apa jadinya kalo orang yang anda cintai dan yang mencintai anda diambil dari sisi anda ? semua orang akan mempunyai uraian statement yang berbeda, mungkin.. namun yang pasti, konteks uraiannya adalah perasaan sedih karena kehilangan.

Pertama banget ngerasa kehilangan seseorang dalam hidup saya adalah ketika Kakek, dari Ayah.. Avo Andre,, meninggal dunia, November-8 Tahun yang silam, beliau dikenang sebagai pribadi yang gk suka membenci dan hampir selalu bisa memaafkan orang lain. Pesan beliau yang selalu menjadi memori dan cerita bagi segenap keluarga adalah bahwa, " Kita harus bisa saling memaafkan, karena semua orang pernah dan akan berbuat salah." mungkin hanya kalimat simple namun apabila benar2 kita praktekan sungguh akan menjadi kebiasaan yang membawah berkah yang tulus.

dalam keseharian kita, membiasakan diri untuk menghindari masalah lain yang mungkin akan lebih rumit dengan cara saling memaafkan sanggat bermanfaat bagi kita.  

Imagine, People live in peace and forgive each other ?

God gives and Forgives, kenapa kita ngak ???

Rest in Peace - Descansa em Paz Avo Andre Simoes, 
We all always love and pray for you.

Tak selalu bisa dijelaskan..

Semua orang bersemangat membahas dan mengeluarkan opini mereka tersendiri ttg cinta, tak pelak pengalaman seorang yang selama ini terpendam akhirnya terungkap. and guess what ?? semua itu karena mereka ingin mereka di artikan sebagai orang yang mengerti cinta... Pengalaman yang selama ini mereka bungkus rapi bahkan disimpan dalam memori yang telah rusak tiba2 saja, sifatnya udah bukan secret lagi.. 

Its worthwhile they say. 

Entahlah.. - apa karena saya tidak terlalu berani hingga tidak berterus terang ketika mendefinisikan arti cinta.. seharusnya ketika pengalaman mereka yang terlalu sederhanan pun bisa mereka gunakan sebagai referensi mutlak dalam mendefinisikan cinta, mengunakan hak saya sebagai individu mandiri yang pendapatnya tidak boleh diganggu gugat dapat saya keluarka tanpa khawatir akan balasan dari orang lain.. tentunya dengan syarat saya harus juga mengamini definisi definis yang lain dari mereka bahwa cinta itu.... bla bla bla 

Mungkin pengalaman yang saya ada belum satupun yang bisa merefleksikan ttg cinta yang sebenarnya. meskipun kadang pendapat kita tanpa kita sadari di amini oleh teman2 dan mereka kadang bukan hanya menyukai bagaimana kamu mengartikan cinta, tapi bahkan menganggap  pendapat kita itulah yang benar... Semua tidak bisa di jelaskan. !! bukan berarti kita tidak seharusnya mengerti ttg konsep ini, mencoba mengerti itu mungkin hal yang simple yang gk terlalu kita takutkan untuk kita lakukan, ketika disekitaran kita terlalu banyak bermunculan jutaan hal yang sudah terlanjur selalu membingungkan kita.... 

to be continued.... ^^

Mr Lopce

Olala...........

I miss the talks we used to have, 

I miss the voice I used to hear… 

I miss hearing your crazy but cool stories,

 and above all these… I just miss you!! :)

I'm still the one

And now you worry about me, 

i can see it from the way you tell those words to me.  

yet i dont see you mad at me,
your eyes just didnt shown the anger at all. 

I know its love 

Then dont you worry, just dont at all. I'm still here with you,
I'm still here and i'm still the one.

and i get it, if you want something more.  i admit,  there was a lot of words and egoistic speech that've hurted you, we are on journey darling.. 
will you still stand here hold my hand ?

I sometimes got tired living in loneliness,i wish u were here, or maybe i'm there.
Its happiness to me !!

the world and the people seemed avoiding me.
 I hate living in the iginorance.

I wanna moment to be real, touch the things that makes me feel i belong.

I miss you too. you know!!!

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What if ??

Ego is the only requirement to destroy any relationship..
so be the bigger person skip the " E "and let it " GO "

What if someday i finally let you go, as you always have a bad mood. 

What if  i will never let u go ? Would you still tortured me for that ?

What if i lose hope ?

What if my final decision is to end all of this ? 

Our Relationship...

What if we only ended up become a stranger again ?

even with Memories...

^^ We both know that we won't get along and carry on if we couldn't change what is should to  be changed.. 

If only i knw what's in your mind ! I won't bothered asking you all of this and write it down over here. ^^




Another part of me yearns for  more, don't you know ?



 

Things to know

Many men may claimed that they're really good with women, that to get women is not a big deal for them. Getting laid are just easy for some Man.

The thing is what made women fell for them might not only because that they're good but maybe cuz their background, or even may be,  their  handsomeness and or etc..
They're only confusing their mind.

cuz sometime somehow they're gonna stucked like other men does when they're trying to get some woman. some woman may will compliacte them. There is no doubt about that. Selalu begitu !!

Pria tentunya akan disulitkan oleh beberapa wanita, gk semua yang mereka inginkan akan terpenuhi dengan gampang. Well, at least ketika mereka akan serius dengan wanita. wanita terlalu rumit untuk dipahami, when they say yes it means No and otherwise. *teunyahodeui* hehe

Found some passage on facebook, dan menurut saya mungkin akan membantu buat teman2 pria apabila kalian mengetahuinya. atau bahkan kalian udah mengetahuinya, poor me.. Tpi gk mungkin dong hanya saya yg belom tahu.. Semua pria akan terkesan binggung soal wanita. semoga membantu.!!  hehe

Well, lets find out together.  Good Luck

(1) Fine:This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2) Five Minutes:If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes towatch the game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing:This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in “Fine.”

(4) Go Ahead:This is a dare, not permission. Don’t Do It!

(5) Loud Sigh:This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

(6) That’s Okay:This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That’s okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

(7) Thanks:A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you’re welcome. (I want to add in a clause here – This is true, unless she says ‘Thanks a lot’ – that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say ‘you’re welcome’ . that will bring on a ‘whatever’).

(8) Whatever:Is a woman’s way of saying F–YOU!

(9) Don’t worry about it, I got it:Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking ‘What’s wrong?’ For the woman’s response refer to # 3.

Learn Something ??

Cheers

We The One

Not a great weekend, skype with someone that far away. talking about everything, had a good time ; yet ended up arguing each other and we were just like Whatever..and going off without saying goodbye --  #Not Cool. 

To u out there, this song is for you. i hope somehows u'll check this post and listen this song. Our Differences unite us, Somehow. We The One. 

 

SOJA - You and Me

Lyrics :

It's you and me, it's always been

And how I feel about you, there's no end

But you make me chase you around, all around

And then you need me there when you fall down, down

And when this dance is done,

You and me are still the only one

Well since our time begun

And I'm still with you even when your gone

When this dance is done,

You and me are still the only one

Well since our time begun

And I'm still with you even when your...

So I start it, and you stop it

I want it knowing that you're walking away

I start it, and you stop it

I want it knowing that you're walking away

I start it, and you stop it

I want it knowing that you're walking away

I start it, and you stop it

Ya-e ya-e yah-a

It's you and me, back again

Don't introduce me to all your new friends

Why do you make me chase you around?

Why do your words make me not make a sound, sound?

And when this dance is done,

You and me are still the only one

Yes since time begun

I'm still with you even when your gone

When this dance is done,

You and me are still the only one

Yes since time begun

I'm still with you even when your..

I start it, and you stop it

I want it knowing that you're walking away

I start it, and you stop it

I want it knowing that you're walking away

I start it, and you stop it

I want it knowing that you're walking away

I start it, and you stop it

 Ya-e ya-e yah 

Till then....

Sebuah Cerita - Sebuah Renungan

"Never chase love,affection or attention. if it isnt given freely by another person, it isn't worth having. "

Suatu ketika, ada seorang wanita yang kembali pulang ke rumah, dan ia melihat ada 3 orang pria berjanggut yang duduk di halaman depan. Wanita itu tidak mengenal mereka semua.

Wanita itu berkata: “Aku tidak mengenal Anda, tapi aku yakin Anda semua pasti sedang lapar. Mari masuk ke dalam, aku pasti punya sesuatu untuk mengganjal perut”. Pria berjanggut itu lalu balik bertanya, “Apakah suamimu sudah pulang?” Wanita itu menjawab, “Belum, dia sedang keluar”. “Oh kalau begitu, kami tak ingin masuk. Kami akan menunggu sampai suami mu kembali”, kata pria itu.

Di waktu senja, saat keluarga itu berkumpul, sang isteri menceritakan semua kejadian tadi. Sang suami, awalnya bingung dengan kejadian ini, lalu ia berkata pada istrinya, “Sampaikan pada mereka, aku telah kembali, dan mereka semua boleh masuk untuk menikmati makan malam ini”. Wanita itu kemudian keluar dan mengundang mereka untuk masuk ke dalam.

“Maaf, kami semua tak bisa masuk bersama-sama”, kata pria itu hampir bersamaan. “Lho, kenapa? tanya wanita itu karena merasa heran. Salah seseorang pria itu berkata, “Nama dia Kekayaan,” katanya sambil menunjuk seorang pria berjanggut di sebelahnya, dan “sedangkan yang ini bernama Kesuksesan, sambil memegang bahu pria berjanggut lainnya. Sedangkan aku sendiri bernama Kasih-sayang. Sekarang, coba tanya kepada suamimu, siapa diantara kami yang boleh masuk ke rumahmu.”

Wanita itu kembali masuk kedalam, dan memberitahu pesan pria di luar. Suaminya pun merasa heran. “Ohho…menyenangkan sekali. Baiklah, kalau begitu, coba kamu ajak si Kekayaan masuk ke dalam. Aku ingin rumah ini penuh dengan Kekayaan.” Istrinya tak setuju dengan pilihan itu. Ia bertanya, “Sayangku, kenapa kita tak mengundang si kesuksesan saja? Sebab sepertinya kita perlu dia untuk membantu keberhasilan panen ladang pertanian kita.” Ternyata, anak mereka mendengarkan percakapan itu. Ia pun ikut mengusulkan siapa yang akan masuk ke dalam rumah. “Bukankah lebih baik jika kita mengajak si Kasih-sayang yang masuk ke dalam? Rumah kita ini akan nyaman dan penuh dengan kehangatan Kasih-sayang.”

Suami-istri itu setuju dengan pilihan buah hati mereka. “Baiklah, ajak masuk si Kasih-sayang ini ke dalam. Dan malam ini, Si Kasih-sayang menjadi teman santap malam kita.” Wanita itu kembali ke luar, dan bertanya kepada 3 pria itu. “Siapa diantara Anda yang bernama kasih-sayang? Ayo, silahkan masuk, Anda menjadi tamu kita malam ini.”

Si Kasih-sayang bangkit, dan berjalan menuju beranda rumah. Dan.ternyata, kedua pria berjanggut lainnya pun ikut serta. Karena merasa ganjil, wanita itu bertanya kepada si Kekayaan dan si Kesuksesan. “Aku hanya mengundang si Kasih-sayang yang masuk ke dalam, tapi kenapa kamu ikut juga? Kedua pria yang ditanya itu menjawab bersamaan. “Kalau Anda mengundang si Kekayaan, atau si Kesuksesan, maka yang lainnya akan tinggal di luar. Namun, karena Anda mengundang si Kasih-sayang, maka, kemana pun Kasih-sayang pergi, kami akan ikut selalu bersamanya. Dimana ada Kasih-sayang, maka kekayaan dan Kesuksesan juga akan ikut serta.

Sebab, ketahuilah, sebenarnya kami berdua ini buta. Dan hanya si Kasih-sayang yang bisa melihat. Hanya dia yang bisa menunjukkan kita pada jalan kebaikan, kepada jalan yang lurus. Maka, kami butuh bimbingannya saat berjalan. Saat kami menjalani hidup ini.”

From : http://kasihbapa.multiply.com/journal/item/20

Bless

Bukan Cinta Sejati

Semua orang akan mempunyai pendapat masing-masing tengtang arti dari cinta, karena pada dasarnya cinta oleh manusia dalam kesahariannya sering didefinisikan sesuai berdasarkan pengalaman cinta mereka

seseorang akan mengatakan cinta itu indah apabila penglaman cintanya yang sebelumnya berakhir dengan kebahagiaan ( happy ending ), begitu pula sebaliknya akan ada orang lain yang mengatakan cinta itu buta, atau mungkin cinta itu menyakitkan or anehnya lagi menyebut cinta adalah seuatu yang absurd apabila pengalaman pribadi mereka mewujudkan cinta ke dalam arti sedemikian rupa.

Kita sudah sering mendengar definisi “cinta sejati”. Jumlahnya tak terhitung saking banyaknya. Namun kita tak perlu bingung ;Toh kebanyakan definisi itu merupakan hasil pemikiran subyektif dan tidak logis.

Supaya tidak terjebak dalam kebingungan, lebih baik kita bersandar pada definisi yang ilmiah, obyektif, dan logis. Salah satu definisi yang ilmiah, obyektif dan logis itu dikemukakan oleh M Scott Peck dalam The Road Less Travelled. Ia mendefinisikan cinta sebagai “kemauan untuk mengembangkan diri sendiri dengan maksud memelihara pertumbuhan spiritual diri sendiri atau perkembangan spiritual orang lain”. 

Ungkapan “dengan maksud” pada definisi tersebut saya garisbawahi karena tujuanlah yang terutama membedakan antara cinta dan yang bukan cinta. Dengan demikian, cemburu buta atau pun upaya mengekang sang kekasih (walau dengan alasan demi menjaga keselamatannya) bukanlah cinta sejati.

Dalam pada itu, untuk memelihara perkembangan spiritual orang lain yang kita cintai, kita perlu lebih dulu mengembangkan diri sendiri. Mengapa demikian? M Scott Peck menerangkan:

• Bila kita mencintai seseorang, cinta kita dapat dibuktikan atau diwujudkan hanya dengan cara pengerahan tenaga kita sendiri…. 

• Cinta bukan tanpa usaha. Sebaliknya, cinta itu penuh dengan usaha.

Namun tak ayal juga cinta yang diharapkan, diperjuangkan dan diprtaruhkan dengan sesungguhnya tidak pernah tercapai  atau selalu gagal pada akhirnya, jawabannya singkat :  saya tidak tahu mengapa semua ini terjadi, aneh tapi nyata. karena cinta itu kompleks dan misterius, tidak kompromi. tanya kenapa . ?? Takdir dan jodoh jawabannya.. hehehee

Salam

All they Need

Flipping my textbook but I couldn’t concentrate. I don’t know why, I just couldn’t focus since yesterday night :( So many thoughts are playing in my mind and I think I should blog some of it. 

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Why do people tend to look at the dark side ? why we judge a person from all the mistakes they had done in the past ? why look into the past ? Not everyone but it is very common, we judge a person from their past. I cannot deny, I did that too. Why can’t we give people a chance to change before judging?  Then we can decide whether that person deserve a second chance or not.

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When you cannot utter words you want to say, not because you don’t dare but you have no chance .

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( found this passage in facebook , like this !! )

EVERY GIRL SHOULD READ THIS..!! WRITTEN BY A GUY..

Girls need to realize: We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls>OR TEXTS< you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. 
Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. That it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I'm in. Let us pay for you! Don't 'feel bad' We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say 'thank you. Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.It's boring, and we don't care.  
Whatever happened to the word "handsome'/ 'beautiful' I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with 'Hey handsome!' instead of 'Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/sexy' or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I'm not saying I wouldn't like it ether.
Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change!!!!! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.

Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....

and say 'i love you' ..

and actually mean it...

Cheer

Treat Them right

I don't mind being there for you. I just mind being the one you run to just because everyone else is busy. -- Me

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 A perfect partner in life is 

someone you can be with and talk about anything without 

even realizing that the day was over. 

Someone who will always listen and feel twice the joy

 or pain you are going through. 

When you start to feel that connection, never let it go because there is no 

 more to companionship than to love. 

Because in the end, when all else fails and are consumed,

 you will always hold on to the times when you 

don’t even need to hear the words

 “I love you.”

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Stranger again

Dont be sad cuz u're saying goodbye, u hve memories that u'll cherish somehow.. Unknown

Ada kalanya ketika dulu kita bermusuhan dan saling acuh tak acuh, saling mendiamkan atau ketika kita malas untuk saling menyapa dan saling  menjauhkan diri,  tidak ngasih kabar ke satu sama lain,.juga ketika kita menjadi terlalu egois dan menjadi berani untuk menyakiti., kadang bahkan dengan sengaja.!

Semua itu telah berlalu dan anehnya semua itu hanya menjadikan kita menjadi dua insan yg lebih saling mengerti, semua terasa indah karena memang kita telah terbiasa melewati hal yang membawa kepahitan.

Semua proses yang kita lalui, cerita yang kita tuliskan bersama membaut kita berani dan mantap mengatakan kepada duni bahwa kita adalah satu. kita akan bersama dan bahwa kita ditakdirkan untuk bersama,.

Semua itulah yang saya rindukan sekarang, ketika tidak adany kamu disini, ketika kita telah menjadi orang asing untuk satu sama lain. mungkin kmu dissana sedang atau telah menjwab beberap pertanyaan dari mereka semua bahwa kiranya ini adalah takdir. Bahwa kita tidak bisa bersama, bahwa kita sudah menjadi orang asing lagi,. 

Yes, we are stranger again. only this time with memories. 
Memories to tell, Memories to remember.
A memories of love ..

Trus, bagaimana dengan ucapan kita waktu itu bahwa kita ditakdirkan untuk bersama ??

To you out there,..kita bersama waktu itu karena kita berhasil melewati proses untuk sebuah kebersamaan, untuk slaing memiliki ;  dan untuk kita yang terpisah saat ini, adalah pilihan yang dipilih oleh kita. bukan kenyataan yang dipaksakan.

Goodbye.

I'll miss you..